No parent wants their child to be bullied, but did you know that the effects of bullying are often hidden?

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A 2008 study by the Singapore Children’s Society revealed some concerning statistics:

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Signs of bullying you shouldn’t miss

It’s important to stay alert for sudden, unexplained changes in your child’s mood or behaviour, as these can be early signs of bullying.

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Here are some common warning signs (though not exhaustive!):

• Reluctance or refusal to go to school, or a sudden lack of interest in it
• Complaints of fatigue, stomachaches, headaches, or even panic attacks
• Changes in eating or sleeping patterns
• Frequent loss or damage to clothing, books, or school supplies
• Requesting more pocket money without a clear reason
• Coming home hungry, claiming they lost their lunch money
• Avoiding conversations about friends or daily activities
• Unexplained injuries or bruises

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Read my free Bullying 101 guide

We all want to protect our children from being bullied, but it’s equally important to prevent them from becoming bullies themselves.

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If you’re unsure how to support your child if they’re being bullied, or what to do if they are the ones bullying others, I’ve got you covered. My FREE Bullying 101 guide offers practical advice and tips to navigate these challenges.

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​Download the free Bullying 101 guide here​

As Gandhi once said, “An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.”

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While we can’t control the actions of other children, we can teach our own kids empathy and problem-solving skills.

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Here’s how:

• Role-model kindness in everyday parenting instead of reacting harshly
• Hold space for your child by listening to their needs without judgment
• Empower them with skills, instead of resorting to blame or punishment

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By being a safe space for our kids, we ensure that they can approach us with anything.

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Jacinth xx

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